Once we become conscious of them we can use them to change with love. That and all other similar beliefs are not to be used for blaming or justifying our staying stuck but instead for transcending and growth. That somehow it’s a currency that is limited and scarce.Īnd before we start to question this premise it sure can seem that way.īelieving that love is something outside of us is a part of the old consciousness, one that we need to break free of. That it is something that needs to be earned. We falsely believe that love is something that we can only get from others. It’s like the story of a person searching for their glasses that are actually on their head. The truth is that indeed we are all searching for love.īut the problem is that we are searching for it in all the wrong places.Įvery time we are searching for love outside of us, we are searching in the wrong place. We get mentally programmed into living our lives with the desire to be loved by the world around us. We learn to think that the only way to be safe and survive is to always have people loving us.

We think of it as something outside of us that can be gained or lost and also something deeply connected with our survival in this world.įrom our early childhood, we quickly learn the importance of doing whatever we can to ensure our safety and survival.

We have all been conditioned to think of love as dependence. Here are my thoughts about the true meaning of love in a relationship. Most people think they love their partner, but in reality, that is not the case.

What is the true meaning of love